Obama tells America's Dads to step up
AFP
WASHINGTON- US President Barack Obama on Friday reflected over the hole left in his life by the absence of his own father, as he called on American men to do their duty by their kids, two days before Father's Day.
Obama launched what the White House termed a "national conversation" on fatherhood, taking aim especially at minority youths and men, and admitted that he had been at times a "far from perfect" father himself.
"They're more likely to have substance abuse problems, run away from home and become teenage parents themselves.
"And I say this as someone who grew up without a father in my own life."
Obama endured a childhood mostly with an absent Kenyan Dad, and in many ways launched his political career in his book "Dreams from My Father" in which he traced his own ancestry and described his upbringing.
He often credits his mother -- who died of cancer in 2008 -- and his late grandmother and grandfather with key roles in his meteoric rise to the pinnacle of political life.
"Despite all their extraordinary love and attention, that doesn't mean that I didn't feel my father's absence," Obama said.
"That's something that leaves a hole in a child's heart that a government can't fill."
Children who grow up with an absent father is a particular problem in minority communities in inner cities.
"If we want our children to succeed in life, we need fathers to step up," Obama said.
"We need fathers to understand that their work doesn't end with conception; what truly makes a man a father is the ability to raise the child and invest in that child."
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